![]() ![]() It’s only natural for you to become close over time.Ģ0. Your sugar daddy should be someone you respect and truly like-someone you genuinely want to spend time with and learn from. There’s always another rich, wrinkly fish in the sugar daddy sea.ġ9. If at any time you become dissatisfied, call things off and move on. Don’t forget that you can break things off, too. Save as much money as possible, and solidify another source of income so you’re not 100 percent reliant on a single person financially.ġ8. Do: Remember that your sugar daddy can break up with you without warning, just like any other boyfriend. Sugar dating relationship are no different.ġ7. All relationships are work on some level and maintaining them requires energy and effort. Be authentic-but be the most pleasant, gregarious version of your authentic self.ġ6. Your sharp, witty, beautiful self is the companion your sugar daddy’s paying for. Your sulky sweatpants self is for nights spent at home alone. Do: Look your absolute best each and every single time you meet your sugar daddy. This is a relationship, not a pity party.ġ5. Sugar daddies want to feel like they’re making a difference in a sugar baby’s life, but they don’t want to feel sorry for you along the way. You never want to come off as desperate, even if you sort of are. Your sugar daddy is there to help, but he’s not there to take on your problems. Balance whatever negative things you say with the positive things going on in your life. Also, be sure to remind him just how helpful he’s being along the way by expressing gratitude and providing specific examples about how your life continues to improve thanks to him.ġ4. He’s more likely to want to help-and keep helping-if he understands what your long-term career plans and overall objectives are. Do: Tell your sugar daddy why you need his help. So don’t beat around the bush or cancel on him or try to change plans or deviate from an agreed upon schedule.ġ3. Time is a wealthy, successful man’s most valuable commodity. ![]() The idea is to be as open as possible, so conceivably both parties should welcome inquiries.ġ2. Do: Ask a lot of questions about what your sugar daddy expects from you in terms of availability, types of dates (casual, fancy, public, private), sexual intimacy, etc. If you try to negotiate more favorable terms in the midst of dating, you will probably alienate your sugar daddy, who will view your sudden request as overly opportunistic.ġ1. And whatever you do, don’t suggest changing the terms of your agreement midway. Don’t: Misrepresent your needs or expectations. Do: Be especially direct on the first date about what you expect in terms of an allowance, payment (credit card debt pay off, help with college tuition, pure cash, check, paypal, gifts, etc.), and your availability (where and when you can meet, and for how long).ġ0. Your sugar daddy shouldn’t have to work hard to engage you.ĩ. As a sugar baby, you’re seeking to enter into a mutually beneficial, transactional alliance that is most likely temporary.Ĩ. Do: Remain as honest with yourself as possible about what you’re getting into. Do whatever soul searching you need to before jumping in.ħ. Better yet, only pursue this type of relationship if you’re 100 percent sure that the lifestyle is for you. It’s exhausting to listen to someone whine about whatever internal conflict they’re having, so if you’re at all conflicted, save it for your friends. Don’t: Express any hesitations about what you’re getting into-at least not with your sugar daddy. Online back-and-forth becomes tedious quickly and any man who’s serious about moving forward will want to meet you sooner rather than later.Ħ. Do: Orchestrate an IRL meet-up with a prospective sugar daddy as soon as possible. There’s no reason to give anything away for free when establishing an outright transactional relationship.ĥ. Don’t: Send sexy pictures of yourself to any potential sugar daddy you haven’t developed an in-person rapport with. Do: Stay open-minded, remembering that you’ve chosen an unconventional lifestyle.Ĥ. It’s not a sugar baby’s responsibility to guarantee sex whenever she meets up with her sugar daddy, but if you can find a sugar daddy you genuinely connect with, you might very well want to-in which case, everyone wins.ģ. As with any relationship, you should never feel obligated to be intimate with someone unless you want to be. Sex is always on the table when you enter into a relationship, whether you’re dating the “normal” way, or as a sugar baby.Ģ. Do: Assume that your sugar daddy will want to have sex with you. Below are a few tips from a woman living the actual lifestyle, because every depiction I’ve come across so far (most recently, on Lifetime’s made-for-TV movie, “Sugar Babies”) seems to get my world flat-out wrong.ġ. ![]()
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